Marriage or else...
It's funny how if you're a woman on the other side of 25, there is apparently nothing left in your life beyond marriage! I always thought this rule was only applicable for relatives and nosy friends of your parents, but apparently it applies even to your bosses.
So here's how the story goes... I get a mail from this guy who's not even my boss or my boss's boss. He's taken over the complete content practice for my organization, which makes a very big guy, and me... a practical nobody in his team. Anyway, so the mail asks me to call him, which I do with this big cloud of doubt hanging over my head. After I identify myself and we get talking, I find out that the reason he contacted me was that NIIT was sponsoring a master's diploma in Education for some of its employees, and I was one of the selected few. The terms were that it was a 2 year program, I would have to go for a couple of hours everyday in the week, and for about 8 hours in all over the weekend. Was I interested?
I told this guy that inspite of being grateful for being selected and all that, I couldn't commit myself because of certain personal issues. Guess what the next question was.... "Personal issues? What... you getting married?". I thought I was being noncommittal when I said "Ah..Ahem... not really, but... some other personal issues".
The next thing I knew, I was in this conversation about how even if I was getting married, I should tell my parents that they should find a guy for me based in Delhi, and so on... (Of course, why he assumes I need my parents to search for a guy for me is another tangent altogether).
So here's how the story goes... I get a mail from this guy who's not even my boss or my boss's boss. He's taken over the complete content practice for my organization, which makes a very big guy, and me... a practical nobody in his team. Anyway, so the mail asks me to call him, which I do with this big cloud of doubt hanging over my head. After I identify myself and we get talking, I find out that the reason he contacted me was that NIIT was sponsoring a master's diploma in Education for some of its employees, and I was one of the selected few. The terms were that it was a 2 year program, I would have to go for a couple of hours everyday in the week, and for about 8 hours in all over the weekend. Was I interested?
I told this guy that inspite of being grateful for being selected and all that, I couldn't commit myself because of certain personal issues. Guess what the next question was.... "Personal issues? What... you getting married?". I thought I was being noncommittal when I said "Ah..Ahem... not really, but... some other personal issues".
The next thing I knew, I was in this conversation about how even if I was getting married, I should tell my parents that they should find a guy for me based in Delhi, and so on... (Of course, why he assumes I need my parents to search for a guy for me is another tangent altogether).
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You've been tagged...for more information go to my blog, post "My Perfect Lover tag"...please do the needful!
On another note: This marriage phenomena is primarily an Indian thingy, with no sex bias what-so-ever. I went for Priyanka's marriage and Shobho (The groom) says when's your turn?
By illusions, at January 24, 2006 2:25 PM
Have a heart - maybe all the guy wanted was for you to be in his 'happy' state :)
By Wandering Soul, at January 24, 2006 7:22 PM
Thank you Xanchimilco! I agree with what you've said.. but can you please reveal your identity?! The link to your blog page doesn't really open up... who are you?!
By Wandering Soul, at February 12, 2006 11:43 AM
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